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Melissa Lee's avatar

Hi Kia, I really feel the love in this post, and I completely relate. I met my first 'soul dog' sixteen years ago. He was a black Labrador called Mac, and I honestly felt I could never love another dog like that - our bond was so special.

I'm happy to tell you, that we DO get the opportunity to have more than one soul dog in this lifetime! A week after losing Mac (at fourteen years old) we brought a new puppy into our world. I didn't have any expectations for him to 'replace' Mac in any way. But I can tell you that he has well and truly filled the cavernous space left by my special boy. He is 100% my soul dog, (his name is Maverick) but in his own unique way. He is equally special. Even possibly a little bit more so, because he had such big shoes to fill - he had to be EXTRA special.

So I hope this is reassuring for you. I know that as Mac got older, my husband and I dreaded the day he was no longer around, unable to imagine life without him. We still sense him, and get little signs from him too. The ultimate soul dog.

PS. Simba is gorgeous 😍

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Chloe Ackerman, PsyD (she/her)'s avatar

I love everything about this post. Sammy was my first dog as an adult. He was an itty bitty sheltie, likely bred at a puppy mill to be a "teacup sheltie." I was home number four for him. The people I adopted him from said they chose me because they didn't want him bounced around anymore and they thought I was the person most likely to keep him forever. That was in 2012. I lost him in 2021 and it still makes me cry. He was my boy through and through. I didn't even have to tell him what I wanted him to do - I'd just snap a finger and he'd know what I meant. Don't get me wrong, he was a hard dog. He had severe anxiety, really bad allergies, a health crisis every year (thanks, puppy mill breeding practices!), and a bark that felt like an ice pick in my brain. Many people told me he was a dog only his mother could love, lol. But man, did I love that little guy. I hope I get more than one soul dog, but if I only get one, I'm still grateful.

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